Big Girl Bed

So tonight, this happened:

I’m going to be honest: I cried a little.  It’s going by so fast! Where did my little baby girl go?

Meanwhile, I really hope that we didn’t make a big mistake starting her out in the new bed on a Sunday night.  It occurred to me, too late of course, that it would have been better to move her into it last night or even Friday night.  Oh well.  So far it seems to be going okay.

Sam has moved into the crib. He fell right asleep.  Now I just hope if he wakes up in the night (highly likely) he won’t wake her up.

What’s the magic word?

We are working on manners with Maddie.  Mostly “please” and “thank you.”  We were having dinner the other night and had already done a few rounds of “What do you say?” and “What’s the magic word?” She dutifully rephrased the question to add “please” each time.

Then this happened:

Maddie: “I want pepper.” [We don’t really put pepper on her food. She just likes to do what we do, so we pretend.]

Me: “Maddie, what’s the magic word?”

Maddie: “PEPPER!”

Um, yeah.  Can’t wait for her to be a teenager.

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The Unknown Future of Big Media

Putting aside the question of whether or not anyone is actually surprised that Ricky Martin is gay, the story behind the story is how he made the announcement.  Unlike Ellen, Clay Aiken, and others, Martin did not use the mainstream media, but instead posted on his blog.

The reason, as explained in this New York Times article, was to better control the message.

I’m completely fascinated by the way the internet’s many publishing platforms (blogs, Twitter, Facebook) have completely transformed the media landscape in the last several years.  It actually seems to be that the changes become more profound every 18 to 24 months.

But for all that change I think it’s overly simplistic to say that mainstream media is dead.  Yes, Ricky Martin chose to bypass all that and frame his story his way.  But, as the article notes, Adam Lambert chose a different route.  While Ricky Martin is an international superstar (albeit out of the limelight of late), Adam Lambert is popular with millions of “American Idol” fans, but less well-known outside that bubble.  He spent the entire Idol season keeping mum as everyone played “Is he or isn’t he?”  He chose to reveal the answer in Rolling Stone.  Because, well duh, it’s Rolling Stone.

I think Big Media will live on.  Some that are now in that camp will go away (bye-bye Gourmet, at least in print) and new properties will join (hello TMZ, Huffington Post, Politico.com and many, many more).  But the basic concept — big, well-known publications (using “publication” very generically) with a huge audiences will continue to have an outsize influence on American life.

I think the big three unanswered questions are:

  • What will those properties be?
  • Who will run them?
  • How will they be different from the current mainstream media?